Mandy Hale Quotes

Not all LOVE lasts, but the lessons love brings to us do.

Leaving someone who treats you bad doesn't mean you stop loving them, it just means you started loving YOU.

I would rather be alone with dignity than in a relationship that requires me to sacrifice my self respect.

Pain doesn't just show up in our lives for no reason. It's a sign that something in our lives needs to change.

Without pain, there would be no change. But pain, just like everything in life, is meant to be learned from and then released.

Relax. Let every moment be what it's going to be. What's meant to be will come your way, what's not will fall away.

Let go of people who have hurt you. Wish them the best, and move on! Don't let their wrongdoing keep you stuck!

If you don't love yourself, you'll always be chasing people who don't love you, either.

Some people belong in your heart but not in your life. Love them, but love yourself too much to keep letting them hurt you.

Be with someone who treats you like a destination and not a stop along the way.

Sometimes God takes away everything you thought you wanted to bring you everything you ever dreamed of.

Whatever happened over this past year, be thankful for where it brought you. Where you are is where you're meant to be!

Never forget that walking away from something unhealthy is BRAVE, even if you stumble a little on your way out the door.

Be grateful for small things, big things, and everything in between. Count your blessings, not your problems.

When things happen that you don't understand, you must remember this: Someday it will all make sense.

Be patient. Things are happening behind the scenes that can't be seen on the surface.

Some steps need to be taken alone. It's the only way to really figure out where you need to go and who you need to be.

You are where you are, at the time that you are, for a reason. Don't waste it by wishing to be somewhere else.

A relationship cannot bring you things you should be giving yourself: validation, self-worth, and completeness.

People are sent into our lives to teach us things that we need to learn about ourselves.

You will get there when you are meant to get there and not one moment sooner...so relax, breathe, and be patient.

Once you make the decision to move on, don't look back. Your destiny will never be found in the rear view mirror.

A great attitude becomes a great day which becomes a great month which becomes a great year which becomes a great life.

People who judge you by your past don't belong in your present.

An apology means nothing if they don't stop doing what they are apologizing for. Believe ACTION, not words.

Letting go doesn't mean you stop caring. It means you stop trying to force others to.

When you remember to love you, and take care of you first, everything else tends to fall into place.

Loving yourself empowers you to make better choices, which makes for a better life.

The rain WILL stop, the night WILL end, the hurt WILL fade. Hope is never so lost that it can't be found.

Pick your battles. You don't have to show up to every argument you're invited to.

The key to happiness is letting each situation be what it is instead of what you think it SHOULD be.

Allow yourself to hope, to believe, and to trust again. Don't let a few bad memories stop you from having a good life!

A bad attitude can literally block love, blessings, and destiny from finding you. Don't be the reason you don't succeed.

Some people are permanent residents in your life… while others are just passing through. It's important to know the difference.

Never, ever, ever give up! Chances are if you FEEL like giving up, you're right on the edge of your breakthrough.

Accept that some relationships are seasonal. Learn what they came to teach and let go when it's time for them to leave.

Sometimes you have to move on without certain people. If they're meant to be in your life, they'll catch up.

It's not selfish to love yourself, take care of yourself, and to make your happiness a priority. It's necessary.

A healthy relationship doesn't drag you down. It inspires you to be better.

The wrong relationships teach you how to recognize the RIGHT one when it arrives.

If you keep sending away every person who challenges you, you'll never GROW. Some people are in your life to sharpen you.

A healthy relationship will never require you to sacrifice your friends, your dreams, or your dignity.

You don't always need a plan. Sometimes you just need to breathe, trust, let go, and see what happens.

Go with the flow. Force nothing. Let it happen, or not happen..trusting that whichever way it goes, it's for the best.

If it's challenging you, testing you, and pushing you... then it's helping you become more of who you're meant to be.

Stop pacing, stop fretting, stop worrying, stop sweating. Some of the best things happen when you just LET GO.

Sometimes life sends us people who don't love us enough, to remind us of what we're worthy of.

Never settle. Fight for the life, the career, the dreams, the love that you deserve.

The less you respond to rude, critical, argumentative people...the more peaceful your life will become.

Never let a few bad days, bad experiences, or bad people cause you to doubt yourself. None of those things define you.

Some people are brought into your life to be mirrors, to show you behaviors and habits that need to change.

When the day is over, let it go. Don't dwell on what you could've or should've done. Tomorrow is another day and another chance.

Dwelling on past bad decisions you've made only allows those decisions to keep defining you. Forgive yourself and move on.

Just be yourself. Let people see the real, imperfect, flawed, quirky, weird, beautiful, magical person that you are.

Confidence is the ability to feel beautiful, without needing someone to tell you.

You may never understand why something happened the way it did, so don't drive yourself crazy trying.

Loving yourself invites others to love you. Respecting yourself invites people to respect you. It all starts with you.

Change can be scary, but you know what's scarier? Allowing fear to stop you from growing, evolving, and progressing.

There is always a bigger lesson behind every big pain, heartbreak, and disappointment. Always.

When you release expectations, you are free to enjoy things for what they are instead of what you think they should be.

When you are getting ready to advance to a new season, some people will be removed from your life without warning.

Today: figure out what makes you happy and do more of it. Figure out what doesn't, and do less of it.

You are not just waiting in vain. There is a purpose behind every delay.

Take back your time, attention, energy, and emotions from anyone who treats your heart carelessly.

You don't lose friends because real friends can never be lost. You lose people masquerading as friends and you're better for it.

Timing is everything. When you're REALLY ready for it, it will come.

What you want and what you need aren't always the same. Be willing to delay short-term gratification for long-term greatness.

Some people pass through our lives for a season to teach us lessons that could never be learned if they stayed.

It's easy to show skin. It takes bravery to show humility, vulnerability, compassion, heart, kindness, and self-respect.

When you fight to cling to people who are no longer meant to be in your life, you delay your destiny. Let them go.

If you don't see your worth, you'll always choose people who don't see it either. When your self esteem rises, your life follows.

You don't get to control me anymore.

Be patient. A relationship before its time would only distract you from fulfilling your big and beautiful destiny.

Have faith in your journey. Everything had to happen exactly as it did to get you where you're going next!

Seasons of waiting are designed to prepare you, stretch your faith, and get you ready for everything that's coming next.

Keep your head up, your heart open, stay on a positive path, and the right people will come along and join you on it.

A beautiful face can't conceal an ugly heart for very long. Who you are on the inside eventually shows up on the outside.

Instead of obsessing over the things you can't change, focus on what you CAN: Your attitude, mindset, and energy.

Stop waiting for love and start living. There are many stories your life is meant to tell. Finding love is just one chapter.

Forget the past. Remember the lesson.

Learn to be alone and to like it. There is nothing more freeing and empowering than learning to like your own company.

Accept the situation for exactly what it is instead of trying to manipulate it into what you think it needs to be.

When you're comfortable in your own skin, you're beautiful. Confidence is the best makeup you could ever wear.

You don't have to defend or explain your decisions to anyone. It's your life. Live it without apologies.

When you let go, something magical happens. You give God room to work.

If you want to attract happy, positive things...become a happy, positive person! Work from the inside out!

Whatever you're facing today, keep going. Keep moving. Keep hoping. Keep pressing on. There is victory on the other side!

If you have to beg someone to be in your life, they don't belong there.

Sometimes we stare so long at the wrong things, we miss out on the RIGHT thing standing right in front of us.

Faith is moving forward even when things don't make sense, trusting that in hindsight...everything will become clear.

Take care of someone else. Be there for someone else. Bless someone else. A happy life is about giving more than you take.

Happiness is an inside job. Don't assign anyone else that much power over your life.

Never stop trying. Never stop believing. Never give up. Your day will come.

Without standards, you'll settle for anything. Rise up and become what you hope to attract!

Growth is painful. Change is painful. But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don't belong.

When you learn to walk confidently in your aloneness, you are ready for togetherness.

Don't be sorry the moment ended. Be grateful it happened. Even the shortest chapters have valuable lessons.

No matter how much you love someone, you can't force them to change. They have to want it for themselves.

Happiness is letting go of what you think your life is supposed to look like and celebrating it for everything that it is.

What happened, happened. Dwelling on it won't change a thing. It's time to let go and reclaim your peace.

Keep the faith. The things you're most believing for and hoping for tend to arrive at the most unexpected moments.

You can't force something to happen. You can only drive yourself crazy trying. At some point you just have to let go and let God.

Self-worth is so vital to your happiness. If you don't feel good about YOU, it's hard to feel good about anything else.

The more you begin to love yourself, the less you'll look to others to validate, approve of, or complete you.

Sometimes it takes losing everything you thought you needed to gain everything you ever wanted.

Until you get comfortable with being alone, you’ll never know if you’re choosing someone out of love or loneliness.

When something or someone is no longer bringing you up, but pulling you down - it’s time to let go. When something or someone is no longer adding to your life, but subtracting from it - it’s time to let go.

Today's a good day to start walking in the opposite direction of anything or anyone that causes you more sorrow than joy.

You can't see it now, but that thing you didn't get will someday be the best thing you never had. Let it go. Better is coming.

Sometimes you have to experience what you don't want in life to come to a full understanding of what you do want.

Maybe it's okay that you don't know what's going to happen. Maybe you should stop predicting and controlling and enjoy each moment as it comes.

When someone's purpose in your life is done, let them go. Make space in your life for new friends, opportunities, and love.

You don't have to prove yourself to anyone. Just be YOU and the right people will love you for it.

If it didn't happen, it wasn't the right timing. Don't be discouraged...be happy that it didn't happen before you're ready!

The bad thing that happens today could be paving the way for the good thing coming tomorrow. Trust the process.

There are no accidents. People come in and out of our lives for a reason and where we end up is where we were destined to be all along.

Be thankful for relationships that don't work out. They teach you, change you, strengthen you, and prepare you for the one that will.

Your peace is more important than driving yourself crazy trying to understand why something happened the way it did. Let it go.

Be good to people. You will be remembered more for your kindness than any level of success you could possibly attain.

Pain means you're growing. Fear means you're risking. Tears mean it mattered. Take what hurts you and let it help you.

Mistakes have to be made for you to find your way. Some of the most imperfect journeys create the most beautiful destinies.

No matter what happened in 2014, the new year ahead offers the opportunity to start again: Better, Stronger, and Wiser.

As we look to the new year, hold on to what is good. Let go of what is bad. It really is that simple.

In 2015, hold on to what grows you, inspires you, encourages you, or blesses you. Let the rest go.

If you lost it, it's because you're meant to find something better. Trust, let go, and make room for what's coming.

You can't change what happened today. But you CAN make peace with it, learn the lessons it came to teach, and try again tomorrow.

It might hurt when you move on, but then it will heal. And with each passing day, you will get stronger and life will get better.

A person being “too busy” is a myth. People make time for the things that are really important to them!